2 down, 1 to go!
Well it’s finally happened, My kids are all growing up and leaving me to start life’s of their own.
Laura 28 left first, just over a year ago, buying a house with her partner. She called me last night to tell me they are getting married next year. I’m delighted for them both.
Steven 30 leaves this weekend, moving into rented accommodation with his partner. They’ll be buying soon but giving it a try first
Both of these were expected.
What wasn’t expected is that my munchkin Claire 21 would be moving out so soon.
She recently graduated from Strathclyde with a first class honours degree. I’m very proud of her. Even more so that she has her first job working for a major bank on an amazing starting salary.
A salary that many of my own extended family couldn’t hope to earn despite working for many years.
There’s the proof that education and guidance makes the difference to people’s starts in life.
What wasn’t expected is that she’d be leaving home so soon and moving south to their headquarters.
Coincidentally her boyfriend lives in the same city.
What’s the chances eh??!!
I’m pleased for her but can’t help feeling a bit sad.
This place we live isn’t just a house, it’s home.
Soon I’ll be rattling around in it on my own.
The thought of downsizing crossed my mind, maybe renting it out and using the money to see the world.
But truth be told I’ve seen as much as I want to see with the exception of New York, Vegas, Washington DC and the California coast
I’ve no desire to backpack across Vietnam or experience food poisoning or malaria in less civilised parts of the world.
So what next?
I’ve no idea really, keep working, no mortgage to pay so just enjoy life.
Truth be told, I think it’s time I found a new partner and settled down.
Life’s too short and too precious to live it on your own.
2am on Monday morning. This new job comes with bank holidays.
But if truth be told I’m not convinced if being staff rather than self employed is for me.
Especially with a daughter getting married next year!
It’s going to be costly. 🙂