Blind-Sided – 7 – Amygdala

Ellen Barkin

It’s hard to talk with a tongue in your mouth. 

Don’t you think? 

So let’s cut to the chase, you already have your hand cupping her breast through her dress. 

Her giving you the tongue is a clear green light just in case you hadn’t noticed already. 

Personally, I’m not a fan of tongue play, particularly when some stranger tries to stick theirs down your throat.  

It’s invasive, unnecessary, when all she really has to say is 

“Let’s go to bed” 

Or sone other indirect euphemism for hitting the sack, ripping the sheets, getting naked, down and dirty or whatever. 

Of course, girls very rarely ask so directly. 

As if they need to ask at all!

It’s usually indirectly, particularly on your first time together and their inner morality learned in childhood, that good girls don’t, prevents them from coming straight out and asking …

“Do you want to have sex?”

Or more directly

“Do you want to fuck?”

Stupid question really … What guy doesn’t?  

Errrr … No you’re okay, I’m not like that … Oh well .. Okay then … Since its you!  

As the guy tries to pretend the girl is special and he’s not just a horny fucker like every other guy on the planet.  

Cos he’s different!

Did you fall for that?

How many times before you wised up?

But you know now right?

Maybe I’m being harsh …

Of course there are good guys out there,   as well as some not so good guys and some out and out rats. 

But there are very few guys who aren’t going to take up the offer of sex when it’s put on a plate. 

Particularly with a good looking woman, that would be going against a gazillion years of history and genetic programming. 

But what if the girl isn’t that attractive?

The guy has more of a dilemma, an internal cost-benefit decision where he’s already thinking past her and the only thing pushing him towards saying yes is the pressure building in his pants. 

Why fuck a girl that you’re not attracted to?

Why have a one night stand with a girl that you are attracted to?

Answers don’t and don’t. 

The first because it’s wrong for a host of reasons, It’s not fair, morally vacant and apart from a moment of physical relief it’s completely pointless.  

Unless you’re the kind of childish prick who thinks its cool to fuck women that you don’t find attractive, build up their hopes then fuck off to the next girl unfortunate to have your company whilst boasting to your mates about  your exploits?

The second because if you like the girl, find her attractive, want to get naked with her then why not stay and see what develops?

But it’s 3am, you’ve slid the straps of her dress and bra to the side and you’re now kissing and sucking her nipple feeling it stiffen in your mouth.  

Those decisions of physical morality have already been subconsciously made. 

Somewhere deep in your limbic system, the amygdala is kicking down a gear, accelerating the production of testosterone, controlling penile function, blood being directed to your growing erection. 

It’s too late to turn back now. 

Been awake since 5am, would you believe I’ve finally watched 50 shades of Grey .. or rather had it on in the background. 

He really is a damaged individual. 

She must be stupid or at least naive to put up with him.  

All that control and contract nonsense. 

Any woman with any dignity would tell him to fuck right off. 

Don’t get me wrong,  I’m all for a bit of fun,  a bit of tease,  game playing but contracts and pain? 

Can I stop you right there Christian! 

I was bored with the book and only read a few chapters before giving up. 

The film was cringeable, an exercise in style over substance. 

It’s left open for part 2, which I’m sure will arrive as its low production cost will generate high revenue from the masses stimulated by a little erotica. 

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