When I Was Your Man?

Isn’t it funny,  how you can hear a song and it affects you.

It strikes a chord,  makes you think,  makes you reflect on what you could have done better and realise what you miss,  what you want in your life that’s missing.

When I Was Your Man by Bruno Mars.

Such a talented guy and he nailed it with this one

I’ve been there previously,  the strange thing is,  when I hear it I don’t think about my last relationship but the one before that.

I wondered why?

The truth is, that although we dated for years we were never really a couple.

There was always a gap.

Everything was either “yours” or “mine”,  nothing was ever “ours”.

Isn’t that kind of sad,  that we spent so long but weren’t really together?

That’s what I miss .. the feeling of togetherness,  being with someone that you want to be with all the time.

Someone that makes you want to share everything you have,  to forget about “yours” and think about “ours”.

Don’t get me wrong,  the previous relationship ended and I don’t want it back .. but we had something that my last relationship missed.

Now I know what that was and I want it back again.


Intangible,  immeasurable,  unfathomable,  but you either want it or you don’t.

I want it.

With that in mind,  I’d recommend any guy who has his girl, to think what life might be like without them and fix it before it’s too late.

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